Some of the things guy likes about girls

I am sure some of my valued reader would not agree with some of the points mentioned below but since it is written merely for fun purpose, I hope I would be forgiven.

Some of the things guy likes about girls;

1. The way she pretends not to see you when you are around her.

2. The way she plays with small kids making all those funny faces.

3. The way she acts not to care about you but seeing you in pain triggers a tears  upon her heavenly face.

4. The way she tries to act so tough there by ending up looking cute.

5. The way she does research on the boy they like better than CID Officers.

6. The way she cries over emotional movies.

7. The way she protects and cares about the family.

8. The way she hits you trying to make it hurt but you feel like a cotton ball hitting you.

9. The way she acts dominant in a relationship but ends up always being a soft one.

10. The way she keep records of all your bad habits and helps you to over come it.

11. The way she hugs you trying to make up for her mistake.

12. The way she tries so hard trying to impress her inlaws.

13. The way she gets angry and shouts at you over something you forgot to buy or forgets to do always.

14. The way she says, "What will you do without me" with a serious look.

15. The way she takes around 15 selfie and commands you to select one, although all looks the same...

16. The way she tries on every cloth in a shop and ends up buying nothing and you end up taking her to next garment shop.

17. The way she hates you when you are with your best girl-friend having a good talk.

18. The way she always tries to see with whom you are chatting with and whom you have added on your wechat and Facebook. Although this might also be a negative point 😂😂😂

19. The way she tries to blend in with your friends.

20. The way she tries to dig up your secrets from your best friends.

21. Finally the way she loves you without any conditions and tries to be your second mom.

If I have missed any points that might be needed to be added, please let me know la... happy reading... Hope it brought some smile on my valued readers.

Dedicated to you

Rivers would eventually dry up,
Icy mountains would eventually melt down,
Moving wind will eventually stop
And sun would eventually lose its light

                       BUT

I will be there no matter what,
I will hold your hand, keep you safe.
I will be your shadow all the time

                        AND

Take you to the world never seen before;
In a world of love,
In a world of pleasure,
In a world of compassion
And most importantly in a perfect world of your happiness,
A perfect heaven I will create just for you.

Oh! What a beauty it was

The beauty that brightens every heart,
      Seems that it will never fade
                       BUT
          Now it's only a tale to tell

It was the glowing hope of Man
  And felt that it will never end
                        BUT
  Now it is all a part of a dream

The candle in the darkness it seems
              Once upon a time
                       BUT
           now it seems to go off

Oh! What a heart breaking beauty
It was between the mature ones
                      BUT
       Not it is old and faded

3 things that makes a relationship more beautiful and strong

I am not a professional when it comes to relationship but I do know that for any relationship to work, three main things should be there; trust, faith and most importantly commitment from both side.

1. Trust
Firstly make sure you don't play with this word. Its merely 5 letter word but it can destroy a well built relationship.

Always maintain and work towards making it more strong.

Don't let your partner ever doubt and clear the doubt before it does more damage later. Many relationship fails because we always keep what we heard and what we saw as a secret until we use it all at once. Just keep in mind that what we heard or saw may just be half truth and the main truth may be totally opposite.

If you feel that you are doubting your partner about something then feel free to clear it out. Sometimes staying quite does more damage than speaking up openly.

Trust your partner until you have a prove but make sure you have talked with your partner about your prove before blaming it all on your partner. Always listen to what your partner has to say on it.

If you trust your partner then you get a sense of relief that no matter what happens in life  your partner will always be there and support you and you know that you will support your partner till death takes you apart.

2. Faith
Some times you just have to have a faith when things go wrong and having a faith that the hard time your relationship is going through will make it strong and more beautiful helps to calm you down and reflect what is really the matter that need to be addressed.

A calm mind can find solution for any problems. Sometimes problms may not be in our hand to be resolved but having a faith that God will help if you help yourself does the trick and it may take time but eventually everything will fall back in its place the way it use to be and even more better than before.

Sometimes we might feel that we are doing all the work and other side isn't bothered at all to make the relationship strong but we never know because other partner may be doing their best to work it out. May be we are too concentrated on ourself that we fail to see how much someone else is doing.

Always acknowledge your partner when they try to make it better. Sometimes little things makes big difference in long run.

Having a faith that your partner loves you more than you and that you should love them even more makes the love competition even more wild and makes the love between the partners more strong and beautiful.

3. Commitment
The most important ingredient that is needed in a relationship would be commitment.  This 10 letter word makes all the difference when it comes to anything we do in life. Without commitment nothing will work well be it job, hobby, marriage, love and all.

No matter how good, sincere, lovely you maybe but if you don't have commitment towards your partner, any built relationship would eventually collapse.

Commitment can be compared to the foundation and we all know that without a good foundation eventually a nature cause will take place and everything will fall apart.

If you are committed to your partner and vice versa, there aren't no power to destroy your relationship. Even God himself cannot break it unless death makes its entry.

Commitment can be so strong that even the greatest force of nature cannot break it. 

With the above 3 mentioned ingredient of life, a relationship would sail freely and openly in an ocean of love and bliss.

If any more ingredient are there which you all reader thinks that is important then please share with me. I am not a professional when it comes to relationship but speaking out what I have observed and felt is important is being shared here... Thanks for going through it... 

If only I have known

If only I have known
The gift of hardwork
And the pain of failure
If only I have known
I would have studied my best
To overcome the pain of failure

If only I have known
Your space in my heart
The pain I would suffer without you,
If only I have known
Then when we had misunderstanding
I would have compromised

If only I have known
Your place in my life,
Without you a lonely life,
If only I have known
Then I would have apologised
For all the pain you been through

Demands you

Its really hard to bear this pain,
Feels like I am being sicken by it.
Every breath, every respire demands you
To be by my side forever.

God knows how I feels about you,
Even ocean full of ink, sky full of paper
Cannot fit all the feelings I have for you,
Its just that even I cannot express it.

My soul and body demands you,
And believe me I really love you
And I will always do,
For me you are prefect the way you are.

Love has a power to change someone

Ever since I joined College of Science and Technology, I have found myself with such an intelligent and confident friends to accompany myself. Almost everyone is talented in his or her own way. Among those friend, I met a friend who was different from all. He was cool and the best quality about him was his cool temper, I have never seen him angry nor he takes things to his heart. For him what ever people says doesn't matter, he is always happy and lost in his own happy world. May be that's why he was unique and I found him more open to everything.

He had a great personality but I never found him with a stable relationship, he would flirt around every girl he added on facebook. Some never replied to him while some found him open minded and started chatting with him.

I would always find him flirting around, once I jokingly told him that he was wasting his time flirting around and that this way he will never end up with the right person, but I never knew was what plan God has for him. Such flirting carried on for two more years and I was shocked how he can manage to flirt around with so many at once.

It was shocking to see that he finally stopped doing his flirting and was busy with calls, as usual I thought he was flirting until I found out that he was chatting with only one girl. You see it seems he has found himself a stable and fixed love of his life.

To be honest I never thought a guy who used to flirt so much that everyone would make fun of him would end up to be a committed lover at the end.

They are still going strong with their love although she has gone to Japan. He has been using net only to chat with her, I am still not sure the love of his life he met during flirting or is there a beautiful plot being plotted by the God for them to meet and find out that they are meant to be together.

I still finds it hard to believe how love can change someone from flirty to a committed lover...

Beautiful Ghost of Haa

All though Haa Dzongkhag is blessed with one of the most spectacular view such as Ri_Sum, view of Mt. Jhomolhari frm Chelela, cold water fishery.

It also has a secret that's been there dwelling into every person's mind which has been passed onto by elders.

One such secret is the story of a beautiful girl who is said to be a beautiful ghost that one meets when one travels alone at late night near the army camp towards the Haa lower market.

It's said that one dies of illness or unknown sickness if one come across her while travelling late night alone. It always gives me a shiver deep down my spine when ever I reach that place. It's unknown whether it's a truth or some scary story to prevent children's from roaming late night. What ever be the case  but I find it still scary to think about walking from there at late night alone. Well let me share you a story that's been passed onto me by an aunt when I was a mere small boy.

" It happen one summer night with a clear moon sky, Mr. X (sorry I don't remember the name) was returning from his friends house alone drunk and singing, he was moving towards the lower market from his friend house which was near Imtrat hospital. When he reached near the junction which is above army camp (DemoCompany), he encountered a beautiful girl. She told him that she was scared to go alone as she has heard many scary story regarding that road towards lower market from army camp. Mr. X just smiled at her and said that he too was on his way to lower market, he couldn't see her face although it was a full moon night. It's said that she had a sweet voice and that she was talking as if they have known each other for long time, he was drunk so he even didn't care to ask her where she stays or from where she was coming.

They were talking and walking together till they reached the GUDHSS, there she told him that she has reached her home. He didn't even care to ask her whether she was living inside the school. He left her there and walked few meters and then when he looked back, she was still there this time facing towards the old tree right beside the bridge (I do remember seeing an old tree there when I was small). He was shocked when he saw that she had no legs but was floating above the road with her white kira and entered the old tree.

At once he got a shock and he ran towards the lower market, while reaching lower market he felt a sense of relief by hearing the dogs barking.  He at once rushed towards his house and share what happened to his wife and children, he became severely sick and died few days later.  Before he died, he had shared about a beautiful girl wearing a white kira with a black silky hair covering her face that had no legs that he met on his way and whom he saw entering the old tree."

There are many such stories but with same ghost and place but different persons. I am still not sure it's a truth or a mere scary story but one thing is for sure, I have spent my childhood days here at Haa and I still remember that old dead tree with a hole in its trunk that was right beside the bridge. Later it was removed and an old chorten resides just below the old tree's exact location. It is an old chorten made of mud and stone, not the new one made of cements. It's in the right side of the bridge. If you all ever come to Haa you can see it for yourself. # It's a story I heard when I was a small boy, I take no credit of it being a real one although we never know, it's being shared because such stories were what made our childhood days a beautiful one#

Waiting

Dear future wife,

I am not sure why you are late, I am still holding onto you to come and show me that this life is worth living. I have seen many girls but I have never met the one for whom I would get a rush of adrenaline, I want to meet you for I know when I will meet you the sky will cry out of happiness in any season, the brother Sun would shine the brightest and sister Wind would blow to show me what you are the one ment for me.

I have had enough experience with temporary love that now I am scared that every girl that will enter my life to love me will be temporary and would leave one day.

They say that God has created one soul mate for every living being but I am still in delima whether I have met you or are we yet to meet each other. I am not sure how you would look like or how good heart you will be but I do pray that who ever comes in my life as a wife should consider my parents as her like I will consider hers as mine. I want you to be my otherhalf and I promise you I will create heaven right here on earth for you.

I don't care how you look as long as we are meant to be because ages later the kind of face and complexion you have wouldn't matter for it will be faded. The only thing that can withstand the power of time is love.

If by chance I ever fall out of love with you, I will always remember how we first time met and replay all those memories to make myself fall in love again.

Waiting is good after all...

It's beautiful when you notice that the one whom you love is right beside you... She has always been there for you although you never met her... she was there praying for you for she was praying for her future life partner... she has been loving you although you never met her but one fine day you will meet her and the whole world will look so beautiful with all the flaws that once you thought was the ugly side of the world... She will show you why all those wrong lover you met on the way was some lessons to be learned to apply when you meet the real love and soul mate of you in near future.

Believe me she will heal all those scars you have been hiding... You won't have to look like THIS nor like THAT, for her you would be perfect the way you are...

She will show you that she is worth hoping for and waiting for... She will shower you will love and concern as vast as her world. You won't feel the pinch of this world for she would be there guiding you with her love...

Dear brothers please don't compromise in life... Don't be in hurry too for you might regret in near future why u didn't wait for her to come into your life rather than going for wrong ones...

Missing my ex Druk 11000

I really miss those days when my love... Druk 11000 was only Nu.60. Those were the best memories of my life. Later it cost Nu.70, the cost was in my budget so with pain in my poor pocket I still went for her. She was what kept me occupied from all this fake world. Recently she broke my heart when it costed Nu.80. My poor pocket couldn't bear it and had to go for second love Miss Rockbee. She was good but unlike my ex she wasn't that good yet she was only Nu.20 per peck so, it was good for my poor pocket.

I went to Paro from Haa just to refresh myself and I convinced myself to go for my ex last time there at Paro. I went in a bar, saw her there staring at me as if to tell me how much she missed me. I couldn't resist the temptation and so as planned went for her for last time. It would be my last farewell to her. We were face to face njoying each others company for last time. It was heart breaking to bit farewell but what broke and shattered my heart was when the bar owner said it was Nu.100 per Druk 11000. It seems now she is really out of my league. Miss u my love...

#I got a good response on tcp#so thought of posting it here...